The drop shackles have nothing to do with the add-a-leaf. The add-a-leaf is there if you want to add weight to the back. I was on the phone with Icon last week for a half hour discussing everything about the kit leaf springs. The add-a-leaf, I'm sure you know, basically allows you to add weight. Depending on weight in the back, depends on if you add-a-leaf and take one out or just add it in and not remove a leaf. But these are designed for other trucks (ie Raptor per the tech and they happen to fit other trucks) therefore the drop shackles MUST be used on a Tremor as I asked about not running them. I also confirmed the heights with as they list different heights if you go to the pages for the Stage kits or if you go to the just the leafs page. So for instance, if you install the Option #2 with the add-a-leaf added, but one spring taken out then you will get half an inch over stock, NOT the 1.5" over stock because you HAVE to use the 1" drop shackles.
I get you are probably an Icon fanboi since you live in SoCal, but I've run Icon before and had numerous issues. That's why I'm hesitant to run them again. They make decent stuff, but also heard WAY more complaints as of late, especially about warranty issues and their customer service. Do they work and are they better than OEM, yeah, since OEM leafs suck. But there have to be other options out there that specifically work on our truck at a much cheaper price. Not gonna lie, with the research I've done...$700 for ONE leaf pack is craze expensive. Then you have to buy the mounting kit and the shackles. If they can give me the ride height I want and from what everyone has said, they feel great, then all the better. But still want to do some research.
As for the poster that has the issues...have they called Icon? What have they said?