A few times a year ford performance toss's a 20% off code - that's the one you want to wait for, and how I got it at a quasi reasonable deal.
After doing some research, it turns out that non-torsen equipped 402A trucks with prolonged use of 4A will have the same issues with the races you're seeing here. As the 4WD system repeatedly engages to ensure traction, it shocks both sides, in the same places on each race, resulting in that awful wear.
With the Torsen carrier this is mitigated by design.
So it looks like I would've been there anyways, so having the Torsen put in saved me the aggravation later, for those of you who dont, and regularly use 4A, you might be wearing those races faster than you think.