So, a few notes-
I have 1" rear block (1.25 less than OEM) and RAS, and no complaints. Have yet to tow anything, but was after similar goal, for reduced sag with payload. I've had 1000+ in bed, and RAS handled nicely, while the shorter rear block, along with 1.5" spacers up front, gives the truck a great stance, with slight rake.
Regarding RAS tensioning, I've had the same issue, right to left. Adjusted it once, trying to even out, and didn't get quite flat, with load, but close enough that I can live with it.
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